How does one succeed in life?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Why does my vagina smell sort of fishy/musty days after sex when my boyfriend ejaculates in me? There isn’t any itching or burning when urinating, so I don't think I have BV. It just doesn't smell like me.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

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An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

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“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Does not procrastinate.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Where are the big girls? This is the first time I've seen a bigger lady boy and that's awesome .. you should post more of them here, nothing wrong with a thick black lady

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

What I need from you?

That's it for today.

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Do not set goals—set systems.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

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Procrastinates a lot.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

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Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Ask yourself:

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.